love ,beauty and attraction

have u ever been in love before....

i often wonder what actually make love ,is it beauty which bring attraction for u to love someone or because of other reason.if beauty bring love ,what kind of beauty that make love is it the inner beauty or the outside beauty.when i was a child i use to belief that it is the outside beauty that make love,i learn this from fairy tale story,snow white,cinderella ,beauty and the beast,where in all of this story the hero are mesmerize with the beauty of the heroin where in the end of the story they live happily ever after.BUt the reality is In this real world can a couple continously be in love if they fall with each other just because of their look as beauty is not eternal.

So as i grow older i ve different perception on how people fall in love.here's my opinion on love

A guy will fall for a women who he sees for the first time which this is call love at first sight ,but as for me this should not yet to be call love as this is only an attraction.Where this kind attraction will make the men to take the next step to get to know the women deeply.As they get to know each other better they both will maybe fall in love in the process or maybe not.

But what if in the process of knowing each other only one person fall in love but not both.That person will have the feelin of being rejected or would feel that they are being played.This is why it is important for guy to make sure that they dont give the hope in the process.This is the biggest mistake that men often made.If u dont really love her dunt raise her hope.I wish men could stop doing this.Is it entertaining to do this.(okY I Get Over reacted sometimes).

Back to our topic.

Beauty is only one kind of attraction as there is other kind of attraction .Because of this fact it enable blind people to fall in love,i m sure most of u out there know the phraseof "love is blind".So despite of their disabilities of not having eyesight still they can love and be love.As some people have the inner beauty that sparkles in themselve that attract people to get to know them eventhough they dont ve the look which is the outside beauty.

Beauty ,love and attaction are interdependence to each other..so make sure all this 3 thing are being considered before u fall in ....